Bullying At School: Part V

Victims of bullying are often reluctant to seek adult intervention because they believe doing so will only bring about further abuse. It is very important to keep lines of communication open by asking about related, but neutral topics, like classes, friends, and activities. According to Stacy DeBroff, even if your child will not admit to being bullied, there are a number of signs that can give you insight into the situation. Look for the following:

1. If your child shows an abrupt lack of interest in school, experiences a sudden drop in grades, or tries to get out of going to school.

2. If your child changes routine to avoid a time period or situation where it is especially vulnerable. For example, he may avoid gym class or the cafeteria or insist you driving to school.

3. If your child comes home with bruises or loses money and other items frequently without a good explanation.

4. If your child becomes preoccupied with some aspect of appearance such as his weight, hair or glasses.

5. If your child seems fine during the weekend but depressed during the week.

6. If your child appears sad, angry, or frightened after receiving a phone call or email.

Tomorrow will be more signs to look for if your child is being bullied.