How Should I Discuss Bullying With My Child

According to Stacy DeBroff, one of the most common misunderstanding is that bullying is normal and a part of growing up. If you get information that your child is being bullied respond supportive and let your child know you will be there for full support. The best thing you can do is to make your home a refuge where your child feels accepted and loved. Remind the child what is going on is not their fault and the blame belongs on the bully.

Sometimes school officials feel the victim is being attacked because of lack of social skills and will refer the child to counseling. Tell you child the way to fight back is to inform the school authorities or the teachers about what is taking place. Warn your child against engaging in physical retaliation, threats, or other forms of revenge. Your response is important to teaching your child problem-solving skills. If you impulsively change your child's class or school to avoid the bully without exploring other options, you may teach your child to run away form problems instead of confronting them. The most important thing is to keep honest lines of communication open and when or if you feel it is necessary, go to the school to make sure things are being handled and a plan is in place.