When A Parent Loses A Job

Unemployment isn't just a financial strain, it's a family one. Minimize the stress of a job loss with these tips by Stephen C. George:

1. Stay on a schedule with small children - Young children are happier and less anxiety-prone if they have a consistent routine.

2. Know when to walk away - There is stress enough with looking for a new job. Add a crying baby or insistent toddler to the mix and it is enough to put any parent over the edge. Expect this and plan for it.

3. Share your feelings - Most school age kids understand the impact, so share the problem and plan, but not until you have a plan in place.

4. Encourage questions - Let your kids know thy can ask questions and answer them as honestly as possible.

5. Let them help - Kids may not be able to change a parent's job prospects, but they can feel more in control if they each have responsibilities to handle.

6. Look for lessons - Make sure your older children understand that unemployment is serious but surmountable.